What is it that attracts two people with complete different personalities, brought up in contrasting school of thoughts and most of all, from two opposite sides of the globe?
I once read that on individual is most likely to be attracted to another if the both of them resembles each other. One with the femine features and the other with the masculine feature. Similar and yet different. Put the two together and you see identical features in each other, so much so that one might think they are related. Well, then said, you will be then most likely to be attacted so someone who looks like you though you may not think so. This 'we look like each other' theory has actually be proven in many couples. My past crushes resembles me too. Some told me before that we look like brothers and sisters. He could have been my brother...he ain't heavy, he is my brother..but unfortunately, he is heavy and he is NOT my brother. So what other theories are there?
Opposite attracts. The most common words used when u meet couples with completely different personalities. Its like seeing a dog dating a cat. Why? Opposite does attract. One fulfills what the other lacks and hence, complete each other. Say, a clown dating a serious person. Dont you see the attraction? hahahah..difficult yes i agree, but the clown fills the dead serious person with some humour while the dead serious person knocks some sense of reality into that the clown.
What other attractions are there? well..there are plenty of materialistic and surealistic and bombastic reasons. You may be attracted to someone because she is pretty, dead gorgeous or he may be filthy loaded you just like the sense of money on him? There may be some other bizzare reasons out there but let's not explore to those valleys of darkness and physchoticness lah..otherwise some will develop twisted ideas and fantasies that will add up to more social problems...so..we detour..to something more ahhh...cloud nine.
Have you thought about Sarang In Gayo? No, don't need to go wikipedia that word, it simply means, perhaps love in korean. Yes, maybe the attraction to one another is perhaps love. the quivering of the lips, the pounding of the heart ( like heart attack), the butterflies and caterpillars in the stomach..is that love? is that the one thing that you have been looking for all your life but never seem to find it and now you seemed to have found it? the attraction that doesnt need you to be a rocket scientist to tell you..its your own feelings for God's sakes! Chemistry 101, one atom of oxygen plus two atoms of Hydration...yes perhaps you do need WATER afterall.
Everybody is sure to experience that moment before..the perhaps love situation. It just when and how and with who..
